Can changing your gender presentation make the core of You more interesting, more endearing to strangers?
Recently a friend said with glee that “I’m so much more popular as a woman; people give me more attention and respect than they ever did when I was presenting as a guy.” Is this actual reality, wishful thinking, mis-perception or something more?




As some of you know, after six years off shore in Buenos Aires Argentina, I was back in New York City from June 2010 to September 2011.
Chaz Bono was a male trapped in a female shell for as long as he can remember.
When I first came truly “out” in 2000, many transsexual women were still living in stealth; hordes of cross-dressers were still in the closet, and those that were out had mostly confined there occasional Girl’s Night Out(s) to cross-dressing parties. 




